There are times when we feel…. “I wish I had said this at that time…” or “I wish they had told me about this that very moment than keeping it for later..”. Clarifying the mis understandings there and then is a better option than bottling it up!! All it does is results in widen the gap caused due to mis match of emotions.
Choosing correct words at the correct pitch is also of grave importance. Generally the tone used defines the emotions going through your mind. One more thing that matters is that No matter what you say or do, once the harm is done it is a permanent damage.
I have learnt one thing for sure…..zip it up if you know what you are going to say is going to hurt the relationships. It is there binds that help you cruise through life easily!
More on this later…….its been a topic close to my heart for a long time.