What is Abuse??? Physical. emotional, sexual, betrayal, intimidation, slapping, hurting, threats etc etc….
then what is a Relationship? Its a bond of caring for each other and being together till time does them apart.
So how does this bond get abusive??? We have heard so many incidents of Marital Rape or date abuse, and similar werched forms of abuse. Sometimes we mistake the abuse as care, intense feelings or even it may seem flattering. But deep down we all know something is not right…. and this something is what needs to be identified and set straight.
To start with identifying the causes and pre emptive precautions we need to understand the core of relationships. It’s a beautiful experience but both the people need to respect a few things:
2. Each other
3. The relationship.
Respect is one of the pillers of the relationship which gives not only a backbone but also a security to the people involved directly and indirectly. When the basic idea is in poace it becomes a beautiful experience. I have been in 2 relationships and i must have dont something right to get guys who will hurt themselves to save me from being hurt…….i know its like a dream come true…. 🙂
coming back…..Although men also suffer from domestic abuse and violence, women are five to eight times more likely than men to be victimized by an intimate partner.
Abusers regularly deny the abuse or rationally try to justify it. Its our responsibility to make sure that we put the point across of having the right to be treated well. I presonally feel its a personal decision that we take for ourselves. And i am not saying that i support the abuse or the abuser but i hold the victim responsible for letting that happen to him or her.
I know love is blind….it must have een true for both sides or may be one side only. But only the fact that you are in love does not justify the act.
Think About it!!!